I read a friend's blog and it reminded me of something...


EMOTION BLACKMAILING


I first read about in this fiction book, about how this lady found her mother...and her mother was emotionally blackmailing her...which in turn, she 'blackmails' the pple around her...to the extend tt her fiance left her...


I hv tot about this before...and I think I am an emotion blackmailer...I admit, I am one...but there's no way I can change it...Most of the time (or rather all the time) I do it unknowingly...only to know it after I did it...


Actually I feel that I hv depressions every now n then...well not those very serious...but I do get it once in a while...esp when I am very stress...it can get very bad, to the extend that my friends don't dare to talk to me or even come near me (tt happen during JC times)...then 'blackmailing' becomes more serious...I was glad that I had some friends who really stick by me through those time...

The person who gets 'blackmail' the most often will be my bf I guess...whoever my husband in the future must really hv a high tolerance to this...