I read in the Nanyang Chronicles about blogs...
"Everyone has their darkest secret, tt even spouses don't know, so y do pple still wan to start blogs?" Aren't diaries for you to keep secrets?

Very good question...I believe alot of pple are asking the same question. This question has been around ever since blog become popular..
For me, I think I started blog to follow trend (yes I admit tt)..but I realised it is a pretty good medium to interact with your friends...there may be some things you don't know how to put in words, so u write them out instead...

There is something tt happen to my circle of friends recently tt I ought not to say it out on my blog, coz tt person will read it...so the question is should I or should I not?

This always happen to me...coz actually I hv the habit of writing diaries...so there are certain secrets tt I can write n "gossip" with myself (sounds pathetic but not the point)...So I always like to put every single thing tt happen to me....but I realise after using blog, I feel "tied up", there are so many things tt I can't write...coz they are my darkest secret, something private..or something I say will offend my friends...

If you all can find my previous entry some time back, I did said something about my friend (ok I admit, I was talking about Steph...pls dun kill me!!!!)...but well, I was just angry at tt time, aren't we still good friends? If you think or even know I am talking about you...I won't deny it ok...

I really can't stand it, I must talk about the event...I have a friend (whether you know I am talking about u, I don't care, but I hope you won't be offended, we are just trying to make u join in again) who I all along don't really cliq with...just tt it is difficult to continue a conversation...there was really nothing wrong with her at first...but after being friends for quite sometime, her character starts to show, and it is flaws that we see...Some of my other friends feel the same way too, so we start to drift away from her...she felt it and asked wat was wrong (not face to face, but through blog)...out of good will, we told her through her blog (anonymous) wat was wrong in a very gentle tone...wat we got in return is only a very defensive and self-denial response...well, some pple were quite pissed (I myself buay tahan)...we are doing it for your sake lor...
Then she was like y anonymous, scared pple know (you know tt meaning?)...come on, would you rather us tell u flat in the face or u wan it this way? The losing end is her, not us...as I said "...if you continue to be like tt, u will realise ur friends will start to leave u slowly...in the long run you are the one tt is going to lose (n get hurt).."

Wat a long entry...but anyway I just hope that things will turn out the better way!